We’ve taught Urdu to a multitude of children over the years, and we know that it's no light work to get them speaking it at home! Most parents tell us their child understands Urdu but replies in English, or just avoids speaking it altogether. It’s a common challenge — and one we completely understand!
Through our work with families, we’ve seen what actually helps. Here are five simple, practical ways to encourage your child to start speaking more Urdu at home, but before we begin, it’s important to understand why this can be challenging.
Like any other language, Urdu can be challenging to pick up at the beginning. Therefore, from the child's point of view, the most practical solution is to avoid it. Some children are also less confident to start off with, feeling embarrassed or reluctant as they're afraid to say something incorrectly. Others view putting effort into it as a waste of time, as they see no practical use for it in the wider world. To read about why learning Urdu is important, check out this blog post.
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Speak to your child in Urdu - for them to speak it, it is vital that they develop an understanding of the language and are exposed to it on a daily basis, even if it's just through hearing it. Encourage them to speak simple sentences related to daily activities and routines.
Need ideas? Take a look at this blog post.
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Don't discourage or make fun of your child even if they're not saying everything correctly - they will improve with time and practice! However, if they feel that they're being made fun of, they may become uncomfortable and reject speaking in Urdu entirely, hindering their progress. Remember -mistakes are a part of learning!
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Reward your child for speaking in Urdu - celebrate even the smallest wins! Let them know that their effort is being noticed and appreciated, and encourage them to continue. This could include things like fun days out, making their favourite food or even just a small treat 😋!
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Watch Urdu cartoons and dramas together - choose age-appropriate shows with subtitles for a bit of extra help. It's a fun and low-pressure way to get them familiar with the language and boosts listening skills, all whilst getting entertained with the gripping plotlines and cultural insight they offer. Making them watch the first few episodes may be challenging, but with time they won't want to stop!
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Play games together in Urdu - this is an interactive way to develop their skills in Urdu while having an enjoyable time too with their loved ones!
These could be anything from Hangman to I Spy, and more! For more creative inspiration, see this blog post.
Helping your child speak Urdu at home doesn’t need to be overwhelming. With a little consistency, fun, and encouragement, you'll start seeing progress — even if it's just one word at a time!